It's been two years since we got married, and my in-laws, who are still worried about not being able to have children, planned a one-night, two-day hot spring trip to have a baby. ``Have you been celibate as promised? Please stay celibate during this trip and show me your healthy grandson as soon as possible.'' The father-in-law's wishes were in vain, and the daughter-in-law fell ill and fell asleep. I spend sleepless nights in agony because of my month-long abstinence.